We met Ruslan and Katya very shortly after arriving here in Ukraine. Steve got involved in Young Life immediately upon our arrival and he and Ruslan became friends really quickly. We would both say that Ruslan is one of our closest and most trust-worthy friends here and his new wife Katya (although she doesn't speak a lick of English!) is a totally sweet, godly and gorgeous young woman.
We helped Ruslan propose last year at Young Life Camp and were excited to finally greet the arrival of their big day! Steve and I were both up early this morning - Steve went to help some guys deliver chairs to the park where the wedding was happening and the boys and I went over to Katya's parents home to do her hair.
The wedding was from 5:00 until 8:00 p.m at Oak Grove Park here in the city. I was really interested to see what it would be like - the first wedding we attended here was very typically Ukrainian (dancing, toasting and a lot of vodka) but the wedding today was the Christian version of a Ukrainian wedding, or in layman's terms....no vodka or dancing.
August was less than impressed before the ceremony began:
The ceremony itself was very similar to weddings at home. They had attendants, vows, a message and exchanging of rings.
At the end of the ceremony, they walked down the aisle, got to the end and turned right back around and headed to the front again to be congratulated and blessed by their parents and then all of the guests.
After that there was food:
Appetizers of all sorts, few of which I had ever seen before! The rolled meat looking thing was I *think* stuffed chicken breast, cooked and cut into slices, the sandwich was a tomato and lemon sandwich, the eggroll-looking-things are actually bliny (blee-NEE) which are Ukrainian crepes and these ones were filled with meat (we usually eat sweet varieties). The square cracker thing with stuff on top was a very deliciously dilly egg salad on a tiny square of bread, with a pea, cucumber and a sprig of dill on top. The juice is kompot. They also had various tarts - one with a traditional New Years salad called olivye (o-liv-YAY) and another with chopped creamy mushrooms and corn in it.
Steve and I were quite appalled when there was no cake and we decided that they weren't really officially married until there was a cake but then they brought out delicious blueberry muffins and we decided that they were good enough to deem them officially married.
Our family:
After everyone had eaten and visited a few people sang and there were some games with the couple. They were all quite cute and interesting (from what we could understand).
The only traditional game that we know of was the tossing of the bouquet (the girls in red were Katya's bridesmaids):